The Truth

How many of us feel empty, disconnected from our work, perhaps even from our significant others, but still maintain 'status quo' living? Many of us can even feel disconnected from ourself. There is a sort of apathy, a sense of sleepwalking putting one foot in front of the other, yet not living, existing. We become entrained as a society whereby many become victims to other modes of 'perceived power vs.  own Life experience.  Take for example, arbitrary rules, advertising, the news that pours into your living environment or handed down mandates from the government, other people, systems, their ideas and opinions or even, expectations -- conscious or not. All THAT somehow subconsciously designs our choices, our priorities and preferences- ultimately, our lives.  This puts us in the default mode of living -meaning just passing time on the planet as a human without a conscious choosing to 'live-life-by-design' approach.  The gift of being human, in every possible an...

How many articles do we read, how many workshops are there and how much money is being spent on "personal development" and yet our relationships with our families, colleagues and communities are still not being transformed. With a simple conscious awareness of what I like to call "getting back to basics" or the truth of the matter, the heart of it all, we can begin to evolve this process and build a solid foundation. It begins with us. Some simple consciousness-raising awarenesses can save us from thwarting our own success. The following "Universal Truths," if followed, will create a template for love, freedom and evolution to enter our lives and the lives of those we meet. 1. Give the benefit of the doubt I know from experience that when I first "feel a feeling" about a particular scenario I can conjure up a whole narrative about what the back story is. I also see my students and clients routinely step into their own habitual story and p...

Resolution of a money story is resolution of a life story. Our relationship with money mimics our relationship with life itself. As Einstein said, "You can never solve a problem on a level on which it was created, " which also phrases into, "The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them." So it is to say that the solution to a problem is NEVER found at the level of the problem, so therefore, don't look anywhere near where money is. Look elsewhere. When we fix the other parts of our life, we fix the money part.  Money, on an energetic level, is a physical manifestation of who we are -- the vibe we put forth into the quantum physical field. We tend to forget this and begin to obsess and focus repeatedly upon money as the issue. Once obsessed upon, we begin to want to save it, hoard it, think miserly about it -- creating more of what we do not want. It follows the universal law of "like attr...

Much like an investment that you put money into for the long term, so is the relationship. Is the value of an investment measured by what the investment garnered based on only today, or over the long term with its potential to peak and create stability over time? Are we in a relationship for what it gives us, right now, its "return" in this one moment... or for its most fullest potential, the long-term savings capability with the bird's eye view? If we micro-analyzed a particular stock minute by minute, day in and day out, and judged our decisions whether to keep the stock -based on that day's earnings or losses - or everyone else's opinion of whether we should keep that investment or not, many of us would have no savings, and certainly no investments.  So the same with "long-term relationships" -- LTR. Those who have stood the tests of time, the challenges of our self-growth (slow, static, inert, painful, passionate, vibrant and/or flowing) in the c...